The More Things Change...the more they stay the same...
Yada yada yada.......
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Waah, waaah, waaa.....
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Why is it that I always seem to go around in circles. Like a gerbil trapped in one of those wheel thingies. Its always the same mindless people, the same mindless happenings. My world is indeed very small (and getting smaller by the day it seems). Just check my facebook list on that one. I currently have only 40 friends on my list and that number has rarely changed in the years I’ve been on Facebook. Once upon a time I might’ve hit 53, but that was back when I was allowing anyone and everyone to be a part of it. Those days are over. These days, I get zero friend requests. Whenever I go out with friends to happy hour, I never meet anyone new. Also not many candidates where I work as far as friendship and romance go. Even when I venture out into the city, I never meet anyone new. How do people meet new people??? Everyone seems to be lost in their world, on their cellphones, no one even looks up. I spent months commuting to work via train last year and I swear people rarely looked up from their cellphones/books/Ipads/kindles..etc. Our worlds all draw collectively closer in, everyone’s inner circle getting smaller and smaller by the day.
I also think I miscalculated when I decided to be friends with women instead of men. Not sure when I made the switch, probably about 10 years ago. Huge misstep on my part. Women have nothing to offer me. I get nothing beneficial or useful out of them. Had I continued on with my mostly male companions, I think my world would be a whole lot bigger right now. Certainly there would be more opportunities. Men have the power to change things...to open doors. Women just bitch/complain/nag/whine and cry. Completely useless sex-only useful to reproduce. Yes I know I'm a woman. Therefore I knoweth of that which I speaketh. Have you read my blog lately? Exhibit A.
But where was i....ahhh yes....MEN. The source of my existence. They are like the sun to a flower. I need them though too much of them can destroy me, but I cannot stay away. Right now I'm stuck in the cold frigid tundra...no sun in sight. That must change soon.
”it cant rain all the time”...Remember that movie? Brandon Lee was never more awesome. Still one of my all-time faves.
This was just another particularly useless, meaningless ramble whine...brought to you by the blahs...and the boos...
Blah, blah, blah.......
Waah, waaah, waaa.....
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Why is it that I always seem to go around in circles. Like a gerbil trapped in one of those wheel thingies. Its always the same mindless people, the same mindless happenings. My world is indeed very small (and getting smaller by the day it seems). Just check my facebook list on that one. I currently have only 40 friends on my list and that number has rarely changed in the years I’ve been on Facebook. Once upon a time I might’ve hit 53, but that was back when I was allowing anyone and everyone to be a part of it. Those days are over. These days, I get zero friend requests. Whenever I go out with friends to happy hour, I never meet anyone new. Also not many candidates where I work as far as friendship and romance go. Even when I venture out into the city, I never meet anyone new. How do people meet new people??? Everyone seems to be lost in their world, on their cellphones, no one even looks up. I spent months commuting to work via train last year and I swear people rarely looked up from their cellphones/books/Ipads/kindles..etc. Our worlds all draw collectively closer in, everyone’s inner circle getting smaller and smaller by the day.
I also think I miscalculated when I decided to be friends with women instead of men. Not sure when I made the switch, probably about 10 years ago. Huge misstep on my part. Women have nothing to offer me. I get nothing beneficial or useful out of them. Had I continued on with my mostly male companions, I think my world would be a whole lot bigger right now. Certainly there would be more opportunities. Men have the power to change things...to open doors. Women just bitch/complain/nag/whine and cry. Completely useless sex-only useful to reproduce. Yes I know I'm a woman. Therefore I knoweth of that which I speaketh. Have you read my blog lately? Exhibit A.
But where was i....ahhh yes....MEN. The source of my existence. They are like the sun to a flower. I need them though too much of them can destroy me, but I cannot stay away. Right now I'm stuck in the cold frigid tundra...no sun in sight. That must change soon.
”it cant rain all the time”...Remember that movie? Brandon Lee was never more awesome. Still one of my all-time faves.
This was just another particularly useless, meaningless ramble whine...brought to you by the blahs...and the boos...
There's nothing wrong with rambling about what you feel. But you are indeed right and one thing about friendships in NY is that they are very rare and seldom exist. This place, including the 3 states are not easy on friendships and as far as relationships, it goes beyond the ridiculous.
ReplyDeleteI hope you don't mind me reading your blog again. Take care.
Its not just NY, CT is like that too. CT is more clique-ish...if you belong to a clique, you have tons of friends but if you're a misfit, good luck. I have always had a small inner circle but lately it seems smaller. the south is different tho. everyone is sooo friendly out there.
ReplyDeleteno i dont mind, i welcome any and all readers as I think i only have 2.